Christine Ceplecha-I am NOT the Narcissist
Family Court and the destruction of Women and Children
Differences Between Autistic and Narcissistic Behavior
My children believe I am a narcissist. All of us have Complex PTSD. All of us are brain damaged with memory issues. If it were not for Karl Ulrich, my abusive second husband leaving documents behind, I would have believed Christine. I know better now. I am not a narcissist. I was diagnosed with dissociative identity disorder 5 times between August 2020 and 2021 and recently self diagnosed with autism which I believe for sure Jackie is autistic, Christine is likely AuDhd (Autistic/ADHD) and Aaliyah and Jayden are likely autistic too. It is passed genetically and by vaccines.
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I am not a little bit autistic, I am a lot autistic. Boomers and GenX women were not diagnosed. There are millions of us worldwide who are elderly and without support struggling in a system that told us to conform life long. We all seem to have extreme abuse in childhood for being undiagnosed and non conforming in our past.
In 2020, with Karl screaming at me and no support systems, I was at such severe burnout that I became disabled NOT PSYCHOTIC! (that is another post on Linda Pietrzak Ross and Karl Ulrich, narcissists who over 20 years convinced people I was the problem. I have loads of proof they were in a relationship. In fact, Linda’s own words are being used by professionals to make points, including a PhD who specializes in psychopathy).
Joe Ceplecha with my daughters in December 2021 and I am alone. From the time I failed suicide in 2019, I was slowly eroded by family, friends, husband, church, mental health, and career. I have been completely isolated from the world since September 2022 when my car stopped working. Linda’s abuse made me trust no one.
Christmas 2021 with Joe Ceplecha, sexual predator based on Jacquelyn Ceplecha’s own testimony.
“Jackie reports a history of sexual abuse by her biological father…and has “done her best” to push the memories of the abuse from her mind…feels she has an “OK” relationship with her father.”
I reported sexual abuse by Joe to Jackie’s pediatrician, Dr. Martine Nelson in Lisle, IL in 1994. Jackie had an extremely high fever and began talking to me about how she tells daddy to get off of her and that he is heavy and it hurts. Joe was drinking heavily then and using cocaine. Three year old’s don’t say stuff like that without merit. From that point on, I never left the girls alone in Joe’s care again. I used to call his mother, Norine Ceplecha, to watch the girls, even with Joe home. Looking back, she enabled his abuse of me and the girls so she would enable sexual abuse too.
This is one of about 20 police reports I found in boxes in the garage that Karl (2nd husband) stored. This particular one Christine is 2 months old and Jackie is 3 years old. Joe was drunk and took Christine from me. It was terrifying. I tried to take her back and he got angry. I had to step away from my newborn who had no head support hoping Joe Ceplecha would not drop her in the hope he would calm down.
The number one question domestic violence survivors are asked is why didn’t you just leave.
Here is why I did not leave
When people ask “Why didn’t you just leave” an abusive situation this is why. “In 1995 Mrs. Ulrich (Ceplecha back then) attempted to file for a divorce, but Dad threatened to harm her and the girls if she did.”
Lawyer, Robert Michael Kaplan called Joe Ceplecha as soon as I left his office in 1995. Kaplan told me that he would love to represent Joe. I was devastated.
Joe asked me to come to Torco Dodge in St. Charles, IL where he worked. He got in the driver’s seat and moved the car to the back of the lot behind the mechanics area and locked the doors. He screamed at and threatened me and then began choking me. If it were not for a black porter, a tall, thin, quiet guy, who saved me from Joe, I would be dead. He pulled Joe out of the car, on to the ground to get him off me. I don’t remember his name. He is my hero.
Christine, your father is the narcissist and is pathological. You and Jackie are under SERIOUS BRAINWASHING and putting Aaliyah, Julian Jr and Jayden in danger.
Christine, unbeknownst to me, reported abuse to the school, which she should have. so it is Christine’s word that should be believed, not mine.
January 2, 2014 Email from me to Joe regarding abuse of Christine
Joe,
I would like to not involve myself in this stuff with you and the girls, but I just can’t keep quiet any longer. Christine will have a nervous breakdown.
Jackie has lived a life of reckless abandon since she was a child. Smoking, drinking, sex, dropping out of school, running away, choosing really bad friends, getting pregnant as a teen, getting in more trouble that cost tens of thousands to get her out of, spending OTHER PEOPLE’S money faster than water coming out of a faucet and she has never ever been made to be accountable and suffer consequences of her bad decisions so she can LEARN. She is with a guy wo is nearly 30 years old and Jackie is 22 and neither can take care of themselves! She blames everyone else but herself and everyone else has to pay.
Then there is the story of the kid who spent her childhood mostly ignored because of a domineering older sister who abused her every chance she had. Jackie put Christine in dangerous situation, waited for braces, missed needed medical help, because her sister fucked up and needed money for legal issues for forging a cop’s signature! She was bullied to near suicide when Christine was ripped from friends and moved to nowhere so that her sister could have a brand-new start which she blew yet again in less than a year. Christine does not smoke, drink, party, have sex. She has goals and ambitions and is extremely focused. She has a good head on her shoulders and will go places if only she is given the opportunity!
Jackie got a car and never took care of it getting in more accidents than can be explained. Christine is hit through NO FAULT OF HER OWN and is driving a car that is completely unsafe.
Meanwhile, Christine is asking for help just to get through college which she is actually attending and in a few short years she will be working a job making money to care for herself and won’t need any help! Her first semester ended with a 4.0 GPA for God’s sake! What is Christine told? We saved money for you to go to college, but you cannot have it to pay for college until after you finish college. WHAT THEY LIVING FUCKING HELL KIND OF SHIT REASONING IS THAT! Here is a news flash. All that money sitting in a damn account somewhere will disappear, just like everyone’s 401K did a few years ago. Meanwhile in La La Land, the irresponsible daughter is handed thousands of fucking dollars to go to TRADE SCHOOL so she can make MINIMUM FUCKING WAGE! What were all those fucking years at Regent University for? The irony, just like I predicted, is she cannot work nights and take care of the kids during the day so that TRADE SCHOOL FUND WILL BE A BUST TOO! In the meantime, Jackie has stressed out kids swearing and acting out because their mother is a nut bag!
So, here sits Christine wanting to go to college for a degree she has wanted since she was little BECAUSE SHE IS FOCUSED and her family tells her FUCK YOU, FIGURE IT OUT YOURSELF. The funny thing is I dropped out of college to help the troubled daughter and now I am on suspension with SIX CLASSES LEFT TO FINISH MY DEGREE SO THAT I COULD HELP CHRISTINE MYSELF! Jackie always arrives as a tornado, destroys everything in her path, and then leaves smelling like a rose.
Here is a piece of trivia. When Christine was little, she used to pray you were OK every day. Meanwhile, Jackie spent every minute figuring out how to fuck you and I by bad mouthing us and getting us in trouble with authority. Now Jackie is the golden child and Christine gets shit on.
You don’t think a 19-year-old can have a nervous breakdown? That just maybe she is at her last straw? She tries and tries and is never good enough. Does this remotely remind you of my father to me? I left and I never looked back. Would you like it if Christine left with no forwarding address and never looked back? Who is her family, really? Who? She has gotten to the point that when the phone rings and it is you, she is a ball of stress from being yelled at all the time.
Two daughters, two separate ways of treating them, two separate rules for both of them. I am telling you Christine has had enough.
No need to respond to me. Just think about this.
Karen
Hi Joe,
I have to pay my credit car by September 1. I do not need the full amount for what I paid for Christine’s school. My first real paycheck will be coming September 19 so I can pay off the rest of her school by myself. I do not have the minimum to pay the card by September 1 though.
Also, will Serpico take the house for our house? Have you talked to him? If not, let me know soon so I can find a lawyer myself because court is September 10.
Apparently, I found the money to pay for Christine’s school which means her father ignored the first email and gave her nothing. As for reference to the house, on August 14, 2014 a Latin King drove through my living room and left the scene.
I had no help, no support, and was pouring money into my grown daughters while I was sinking and unable to finish my bachelor’s degree after Jackie dropped her children at my house and left them and would not cooperate with contacting Liberty University who froze my account permanently. I am doing all of this with undiagnosed DID, Autism, and CPTSD.
The worst part about this is both of my girls are in contact with their abusive and neglectful father and discarded me as the narcissist. Narcissists don’t get shit on. They shit on others. This is why my soul is dead.
Carol Stream Park District – February 5, 2001 - $200.00
Carol Stream School District – February 8, 2001 - $35. 00 School Lunch
Carol Stream School District – February 12, 2001 - $35. 00 School Lunch
Carol Stream Park District February 24 and February 26, 2001
Carol Stream School District – March 12, 2001 - $35. 00 School Lunch
I have hundreds of cancelled checks to reference. This is a sample.
Roy DeShane Elementary School August 3, 5, 5, 3, 2001
$35.00, $20.00, $5.00, $25.00
Jennifer Ruden Madsen, the therapist my children were ordered to see based on DCFS reports because of their father, Joe Ceplecha. We quit her against court orders after she held back from me that Corpus Christi Catholic Church in Carol Stream, IL isolated Jackie alone from catechism class meeting in someone’s home because of all of Jackie’s “sin” because of her parent’s divorce. I had no idea this was going on and it should have been disclosed immediately.
May 19, 2001 and June 16, 2001 - $150.00 and $150.00
Jennifer Ruden Madsen – August 5, 2001 - $100.00, August 25, 2001 - $100.00, September 1, 2001 - $50.00, September 21, 2001 - $50.00, October 6, 2001 - $50.00
As happens in 100,000’s of divorce where the husband suddenly takes an interest in the children and wants custody but never pays for park district, school, or anything else for his children. Corrupt Family Courts allow this. Joe’s arrearage reached over $53,000.00 and I gave up. He learned if he changed jobs and went to different counties he could avoid supporting his children.
Kindercare Daycare in Carol Stream, IL June 6 and June 10, 2001 $464.00 and $226.00
Meadows Child Care – June 15, 2001 and June 18, 2001 $120.00 and $198.00
Meadows Baptist Church in Rolling Meadows, IL near my work at the Baptist General Conference
Meadows Childcare –
June 18, 2001 - $198.00, June 25, 2001 - $98.00, July 9, 2001 - $396.00, July 24, 2001 - $198.00, August 26, 2001 - $264.00
Joe Ceplecha charged a prescription to my checking account and he bounced his child support check.
Joe Ceplecha worked for Torco Dodge. As his wife, I drove a demo. They ordered the return of the demo in 2001 so I bought a new Dodge Neon. The brakes caught fire within 24 hours of purchase and I had to rent a car when my car was towed to the dealership. Note that it happened on 9/11.
This is how easy it is to manipulate me. Apparently, I paid for Joe Ceplecha’s hospital bills. During all of this, I had no idea that I have CPTSD, DID, or autism and my stress was mounting as a single mom with an uncooperative father.
Pelletieri was a charge back for hospital bills Joe did not pay while we were married.
I wrote a check for $189.00 to Central DuPage Hospital for Joe and then wrote a check for $60.00 the same month he bounced child support and sold me a car with bad brakes.
Single Moms on Mission was a group helping to toward safety of my daughters. I had no idea back in the 1990’s early 2000’s that family court is corrupt and sides with abusive men to the detriment of women and children.
Hundreds of thousands of women worldwide succumb to suicide due to split families, isolation, and losing their children to abusive men and corrupt courts.
I am begging my daughter’s to please contact me. I am at the end of the end thanks to Linda Pietrzak Ross “help.” Linda cleaned out my bank account in September 2022. I sold my car to get by. The money ran out. Because none of you helped me with disability I do not have it. Also, my last therapist Ed Groenendal of ISSTD never filed anything and I have documentation of that.
I cannot use government resources because my student loans went into default. We need to sit together with thousands of documents I found, scanned, stored, and backed up. I am not the enemy. The problem is the number of times I tried to connect and you brushed me off and so I had to take this public.